Thursday, March 10, 2016

Wedding Vows From Across Religions




Wedding Vows From Across Religions

02/19/2016 10:20 am ET | Updated Feb 22, 2016
  • Malini Bhatia Founder and CEO, marriage.com, a website dedicated to supporting healthy, happy marriages
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Wedding vows are one of the most traditional and important aspects of a wedding ceremony. Wedding traditions from different cultures and religions vary greatly. Most religions recognize a formal assertion of marriage, but there is a difference in how verbal the couple themselves are in making the vows. While Western cultures tend to utilize spoken vows between the couple, many other religions rely on ceremonial and symbolic gestures. Here are some highlights of how different religions handle wedding vows:

Christian Wedding Vows -

Typical Christian weddings, including Catholic, Protestant, Episcopal, Lutheran and Methodist, use what most of us see as traditional wedding vows - the couple promises to honor and cherish each other as well as commit to each other through good times and bad. They vow to never part until death, but they also add "according to God's holy ordinance and thereto I pledge thee my faith [or] pledge myself to you." Catholic weddings place an added emphasis on the bride and groom promising to remain faithful in their mutual, everlasting love. Also, prior to the exchange of vows in a Catholic ceremony, the bride and groom are asked to "accept children lovingly from God, and bring them up according to the law of Christ and his Church."
Quaker and Russian Orthodox vows These religions focus on silent mutual prayer. Instead of saying their wedding vows aloud, the couple prays together. During the prayer, the bride and groom agree to commit to one another, remain loyal, and to always love each other. Following a Quaker silent wedding prayer, which is a congregational affair, the couple stands up, holds hands, and recites vows similar to this: "In the presence of God and these our friends, I take thee to be my husband/wife, promising with Divine assistance to be unto thee a loving and faithful husband/wife so long as we both shall live."Jewish Wedding Vows - In a traditional Jewish wedding ceremony, only the groom makes a proclamation in Hebrew to his bride. However, many modern Jewish couples choose to add their own spoken vows, sometimes both in Hebrew and English. Today's Jewish ceremony combines tradition with modern styles of exchanging vows but the vows are phrased in a question, rather than a statement, like "Do you take this man/woman to be your lawfully wedded wife/husband, to love, honor and cherish?"Hindu Wedding Vows -A Hindu ceremony involves what is called saptha padhi or the Seven Steps. The Seven Steps involves a priest quoting seven promises that the couple then agrees to. As the promises are read aloud, the couple circles a fire, which symbolizes that the bride and groom are together for eternity. A personalized exchange of vows may be utilized, but in a Hindu ceremony, whether the couple exchanges vows or not, the Seven Steps must always be done last and is the final indication that the couple is married. Muslim Wedding Vows - Muslims see marriage as a union of the souls, and Muslim wedding ceremonies are known as nikah. Typically, the Imam or the head of the Mosque reads directly from the Qur'an and speaks about what is required in a marriage. He reiterates the responsibilities the couple has to each other as well as Allah. Once this is finished, the couple formally agrees by saying, "I accept," or the bride and groom can each pledge their faithfulness and honesty to each other. Nikah is considered sacred, so the ceremony is always intimate and simple. Each religious wedding ceremony has different ways of approaching wedding vows, but the meaning behind them are all similar - they are all steeped in meaning and love and express to the world how committed two people are to each other and their marriage.
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02/19/2016 10:20 am ET | Updated Feb 22, 2016
  • Malini Bhatia Founder and CEO, marriage.com, a website dedicated to supporting healthy, happy marriages
Wedding vows are one of the most traditional and important aspects of a wedding ceremony. Wedding traditions from different cultures and religions vary greatly. Most religions recognize a formal assertion of marriage, but there is a difference in how verbal the couple themselves are in making the vows. While Western cultures tend to utilize spoken vows between the couple, many other religions rely on ceremonial and symbolic gestures. Here are some highlights of how different religions handle wedding vows:

Christian Wedding Vows -

Typical Christian weddings, including Catholic, Protestant, Episcopal, Lutheran and Methodist, use what most of us see as traditional wedding vows - the couple promises to honor and cherish each other as well as commit to each other through good times and bad. They vow to never part until death, but they also add "according to God's holy ordinance and thereto I pledge thee my faith [or] pledge myself to you." Catholic weddings place an added emphasis on the bride and groom promising to remain faithful in their mutual, everlasting love. Also, prior to the exchange of vows in a Catholic ceremony, the bride and groom are asked to "accept children lovingly from God, and bring them up according to the law of Christ and his Church."
Quaker and Russian Orthodox vows These religions focus on silent mutual prayer. Instead of saying their wedding vows aloud, the couple prays together. During the prayer, the bride and groom agree to commit to one another, remain loyal, and to always love each other. Following a Quaker silent wedding prayer, which is a congregational affair, the couple stands up, holds hands, and recites vows similar to this: "In the presence of God and these our friends, I take thee to be my husband/wife, promising with Divine assistance to be unto thee a loving and faithful husband/wife so long as we both shall live."Jewish Wedding Vows - In a traditional Jewish wedding ceremony, only the groom makes a proclamation in Hebrew to his bride. However, many modern Jewish couples choose to add their own spoken vows, sometimes both in Hebrew and English. Today's Jewish ceremony combines tradition with modern styles of exchanging vows but the vows are phrased in a question, rather than a statement, like "Do you take this man/woman to be your lawfully wedded wife/husband, to love, honor and cherish?"Hindu Wedding Vows -A Hindu ceremony involves what is called saptha padhi or the Seven Steps. The Seven Steps involves a priest quoting seven promises that the couple then agrees to. As the promises are read aloud, the couple circles a fire, which symbolizes that the bride and groom are together for eternity. A personalized exchange of vows may be utilized, but in a Hindu ceremony, whether the couple exchanges vows or not, the Seven Steps must always be done last and is the final indication that the couple is married. Muslim Wedding Vows - Muslims see marriage as a union of the souls, and Muslim wedding ceremonies are known as nikah. Typically, the Imam or the head of the Mosque reads directly from the Qur'an and speaks about what is required in a marriage. He reiterates the responsibilities the couple has to each other as well as Allah. Once this is finished, the couple formally agrees by saying, "I accept," or the bride and groom can each pledge their faithfulness and honesty to each other. Nikah is considered sacred, so the ceremony is always intimate and simple. Each religious wedding ceremony has different ways of approaching wedding vows, but the meaning behind them are all similar - they are all steeped in meaning and love and express to the world how committed two people are to each other and their marriage.
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Saturday, March 5, 2016

Something New


Something New

 March 13, 2016
Written by Kathryn Matthews
Sunday, March 13
Fifth Sunday in Lent
Focus Theme
Something New
Weekly Prayer
Creator God, you prepare a new way in the wilderness and your grace waters the desert. Help us to recognize your hand working miracles beyond our imagining. Open our hearts to be transformed by the new thing you are doing, so that our lives may proclaim the extravagance of your love for all, and its presence in Jesus Christ. Amen.
Focus Scripture
Isaiah 43:16-21
Thus says the Lord, who makes a way in the sea,
   a path in the mighty waters,
who brings out chariot and horse, army and warrior;
   they lie down, they cannot rise,
   they are extinguished, quenched like a wick:
Do not remember the former things, or consider the things of old.
I am about to do a new thing; now it springs forth,
   do you not perceive it?
I will make a way in the wilderness and rivers in the desert.
The wild animals will honor me, the jackals and the ostriches;
   for I give water in the wilderness, rivers in the desert,
to give drink to my chosen people, the people whom I formed for myself
   so that they might declare my praise.
All Readings For This Sunday
Isaiah 43:16-21
Psalm 126
Philippians 3:4b-14
John 12:1-8
Focus Questions
1. What do you think is the role of a prophet?
2. Why do you think ancient empires carried away the artists with the political leaders?

3. Who are "rereaders" of Isaiah's text today?
4. What is the "something new" that you long to see God do?
5. What is the Stillspeaking God saying to the church today, in a new day?
Reflection by Kate Matthews
We may have to get past a common misconception about prophets in order to better appreciate the depth of beauty in the words of Isaiah in this week's focus text. Perhaps we imagine prophets as people who somehow, magically or miraculously, predict future events. Even our supposedly sophisticated, scientific culture shows a remarkable level of interest in "prophecies" that predict the end of the world, whatever their source, including the Bible itself.
I confess that it requires willpower on my part not to get caught up in such conversations (in person or on Facebook) even though, or perhaps, because most of my childhood was spent dreading the end of the world that was supposed to arrive with the year 2000. This "prophecy" came from vaguely religious sources, long before secular ones stirred up anxiety over Y2K or a little-known Mayan prophecy twelve years later. Such talk captured my imagination and held it hostage for far too many years. What the world needs now and always, however, is a word of hope, not self-proclaimed "prophets" who claim to predict future events beyond our control and full of doom.
Words of comfort in exile
This prophet Isaiah, however, is full of anything but doom. As we recall from our reading two weeks ago, the voice we hear in this part of the book of Isaiah is often called "Second Isaiah," and many scholars believe he addressed the people of Israel not to warn them with words of judgment (as First Isaiah seems to do, before the exile, in chapters 1-39), but to comfort them during their years of exile in Babylon, far from home, cut off from their homeland, from who they are and from how God wants them to live.
Walter Brueggemann speaks about the role--and timing--of these poetic voices in the life of Israel, when the people thought they had brought this calamity upon themselves by their faithlessness, or needed to be reminded about God's own faithfulness throughout their long history. When things seemed to be the worst they had ever been, God sent these prophets to sing a new song, to lift the spirits, expand the imagination, and solidify the hope of the people. "From the bottom of loss and guilt arose in Israel a series of new, imaginative poetic voices," Brueggemann writes, "...who took the loss with deep seriousness but who shrewdly reinterpreted old faith traditions to turn exilic Israel in hope toward the future." This is a key point, because we are called to be like Israel, "a buoyant community of hope that believed and trusted." In other words, this message was not just for one place and time, but a word for the future as well.
Can we trust this text?
Brueggemann often writes in general about poet/prophets, but he also writes specifically about this week's passage in the same spirit as Gerhard von Rad did, calling it "that most remarkable of all texts that we should not speak until we decide if we trust it." Considering how many texts Brueggemann has studied over the years, we can begin to sense the significance of this week's short reading. He describes the weighty consequences for Israel of Isaiah's words but certainly for us as well, because "they will have no personal joy, no public justice, no corporate repentance, and no family humaneness until the community received a newness it cannot generate for itself." Could it be that we fail so miserably at transforming our communities because we think, deep down, that we can do it all on our own, that it's all about us and our own cleverness and resourcefulness?
The two most momentous experiences in ancient Israel's life as recorded in the Old Testament, of course, were the Exodus and the Exile. In each situation, God heard the cry of the people and sent prophets in their hour of need: Moses, to the people in Egypt, and prophets like Isaiah to the people in Babylon. God led the people home in both situations, to the Promised Land in the first, and Back Home Again in the second. But there are differences between the two captivities as well, because the time in Egypt was formative for the Hebrew people: it's where they became a people and a nation.
A people dear to God's heart
Elizabeth Achtemeier writes about the way God shaped a people out of "a ragtag bunch of seminomadic Semites," slaving away under Pharaoh's cruel regime and crying out for help. We know that God did indeed hear them, took pity on them, and, Achtemeier writes, "set his love upon them." She calls that Israel's "founding story," and we know that they repeated it to one another, generation upon generation, reminding themselves of where they came from, and who called them into being the people they became. Over and over again, they told themselves the beautiful story of God setting God's love upon them. (I've always loved that story-telling process being described as necessary for "un-forgetting.")
On the other hand, the Jewish people did not suffer in Babylon in quite the same way that they suffered in Egypt. There were no bricks to make (with or without straw), no whips, no prison walls. It was a different kind of captivity, but perhaps just as wounding to their soul, especially if they forgot who they were and bought into the values and ways of the empire that had carried them off. Brueggemann has written often of this tension between Israel's identity and the pressures of empire, a tension that translates well into our own life, thousands of years later and thousands of miles away, facing different but still formidable powers that be. He describes the problem of exile in Babylon as severe displacement, alienation "from the place that gave identity and security…[and] the shapes and forms that gave power to faith and life."
For Israel, exile was being lost, homesick, divided, unmoored, rootless except for memory. It must have been challenging to resist settling into Babylon ways, Babylon beliefs, Babylon values. It must have been hard to resist the temptation to settle down, fit in, sell out, and forget the story that had held them together. After all, what good had all that done them? (An ancient version of "How's that working out for you?") Into that emptiness stepped a poet-prophet to sing a new song about ancient things, about the new thing that the God of old was about to do. Maybe that's why we use the words, "ever ancient, ever new."
Be sure to take the artists
I remember learning long ago that ancient empires knew how to eradicate a people. They didn't just defeat their army and take their king captive; they carried off the "flower" of the nation, including the artists, the poets, the musicians, those voices that sustain the people. They knew that they had to defeat more than armies: they had to destroy the vision, the dream, of the people as well. Babylon was doing a pretty good job at that when Isaiah stepped forward and reminded the people of Israel that they hadn't seen it all, not yet. Certainly, the saying "It ain't over till it's over" fits here, for God was going to step in and do something truly amazing. David Bartlett puts it this way: "Anything God can do, God can do better, and backwards and upside down as well….Isaiah predicts different performances by the same actors, different dramas by the same author."
It may be paradoxical, it may be ironic, but it's definitely surprising: right after describing God's actions in the past (and they were glorious, no question about it), the prophet says that we should "not remember the former things, or consider the things of old" (v. 18). What better way to get the attention of people who think that their glory days are over, that their story has run out? Maybe "the former things" are God's judgment and anger at the people's faithlessness in the past. Maybe. Or maybe "the things of old" are great works that are about to be outdone, as Bartlett puts it, by a God who can outdo anything God has done in the past. Does it matter? Both meanings are wonderful (full of wonder), and they hold true for us today as well.
Where you are matters when you're reading these texts
When any group of faithful people turns to the poet-prophet Isaiah for a word of hope, no matter which empire has its heel on their throat, Brueggemann says that "Scripture is 'thick' with many meanings that leave open many possible readings," and he assures us "that the text itself authorizes these many new acts of imagination." (No wonder that we say, in the United Church of Christ, that "God is still speaking.") Elsewhere, he invites us to think of examples of people who read a text like this one "from below," like women, people of color, the poor. After centuries of such texts being appropriated like property by those with power and authority (again, irony), Brueggemann calls these marginalized voices "rereaders" who grasp more readily "the radical quality" of this prophetic text and the lessons it teaches us about God and about the way God wants us to live.
Surely the world would be a better place if all of us--whether reading from above or below--became "re-readers" of these poems, and let the poetry transform us, let it turn our hearts and minds in hope toward the future God has promised and the new and surprising wonders God will work. Brueggemann quotes another great scholar, Claus Westermann, whose words sound like they are just as much addressed to the church today as they are a reflection upon the situation of the Jewish people long ago: "Israel requires to be shaken out of a faith that has nothing to learn about God's activity, and therefore nothing to learn about what is possible with him, the great danger which threatens any faith that is hidebound in dogmatism, faith that has ceased to be able to expect anything really new from him." Brueggemann himself writes that "biblical faith is geared to the future. It moves always to God's coming miracle that pushes past old treasured miracles...."
Consider our hymns and creeds and Bible studies and doctrines and church history: are we so focused on the past that we have forgotten to expect the unexpected? Have we forgotten that we worship, and listen for, a God who is still speaking, and still acting, today, and that we cannot even begin to imagine the great things that God is about to do?
Waters of creation, waters of life
Because he is a poet, the images Isaiah uses are both beautiful and compelling. They evoke primal human experiences, like profound thirst. In fact, the most powerful image in this week's reading is water, and many scholars take note of the waters of creation, the waters of the Red Sea, and, of course, waters in the desert--for the people wandering on the way to the Promised Land, the people on their way Back Home, and for all of us who thirst for justice and wholeness and peace.
While water can bring life, it can also block it (think floods), as Michael E. Williams notes, and both of these meanings are present in this passage: it's because of God doing a new thing that water brings us life instead of keeping us from it. Williams asks about the barriers in the life of the congregation that keep it from experiencing God at work in new and surprising ways, including "the seven last words of the church": "We've never done it that way before." He also takes note of the easy-to-miss mention of "jackals and ostriches" in verse 20, the "most dangerous and outlandish of God's creatures" that will be included in these great works, and will have sense enough to honor God for the great gift of water that sustains their lives even in the wilderness: Williams suggests that we learn from them. Amen to that!
Letting go of past pain
Margaret Aymer suggests several ways to approach this text, encountering God as the "way-maker" who cuts paths for us when it seems that all we face are obstacles and hopelessness, and telling the story again and again, especially to those most in need of hearing it. She also suggests that our Lenten discipline might be one of letting go of the past and its pain, a most difficult thing for us to do. For example, how might such a movement transform our families? For the larger community, Aymer presents a specific challenge when she asks us to consider letting go of our shared pain and outrage over the terrorist attacks on September 11, 2001, which, in many ways, have shaped our national life for almost fifteen years. Is memory in this case something we hold onto in order to justify what we do and feel today, or are we willing to open ourselves up to "a relinquishment of past pain"?
A world that is filled with both trouble and beauty
We live in a world filled with both trouble and beauty, a world that finds it hard to let go of pain. We hear the cries of anguish and desperation of those who suffer. What is our response? Have we ourselves forgotten the story of God's great love and works of love and justice, compassion and restoration? Have we also forgotten to open ourselves to the new and amazing things God is about to do? Have we contained our dream too closely, and practiced a meager economy of expectations? Have we forgotten how to hope?
A preaching version of this commentary (with book titles) is at http://www.ucc.org/worship_samuel.
The Rev. Kathryn Matthews serves as dean of Amistad Chapel at the national offices of the United Church of Christ in Cleveland, Ohio (https://www.facebook.com/AmistadChapel).
You're invited to share your reflections on this text in the comments on our Facebook page: https://www.facebook.com/SermonSeeds.
For further reflection
Plato, 4th century b.c.e.
"Poets utter great and wise things which they do not themselves understand."
James Baldwin, 20th century
"The poet or the revolutionary is there to articulate the necessity, but until the people themselves apprehend it, nothing can happen."
Jesse Jackson, 20th century
"Our dreams must be stronger than our memories. We must be pulled by our dreams, rather than pushed by our memories."
Houssaye, 19th century
"We must always have old memories and young hopes."
John Keats, 19th century
"Poetry should surprise by a fine excess and not by singularity--it should strike the reader as a wording of his own highest thoughts, and appear almost a remembrance."
Alice Walker, 21st century
"Expect nothing. Live frugally on surprise."
Albert Szent-Gyorgyi, 20th century Hungarian biochemist
"Water is life's mater and matrix, mother and medium. There is no life without water."

I Don't Need to Be Saved

I Don't Need to Be Saved

03/03/2016 10:36 pm ET
  • Steve Austin Family man, speaker, & advocate of second chances. Steve blogs regularly at www.iamsteveaustin.com
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Have you ever been cut off by a friend? I don't mean moving away and slowly disconnecting. I am talking about a sharp, intentional separation, from friendship to... not.
It's happened to me twice in the past six months. I get it. I've been become more vocal than ever in sharing honestly who I am, who I want to be, and what I believe. I am learning to be vulnerable, but that doesn't make me invincible. The pain of losing a true friend cuts deep.
In both situations, I lost a friend I had shared deep parts of my soul with -- both past sins and future dreams. They were kind of friends you'd lend money or drop everything to rescue from the side of the highway. Vacations with your families kind of friendships. And now they are over.
Why? One word I have grown to hate: theology. In each circumstance, these friendships ended because I'm willing to say I don't know.
I don't know what I believe about hell. I don't what I believe about the rapture. I'm not sure if we'll be pre-trib, post-trib, or mid-trib. I don't know what I believe about speaking in tongues.
I am pretty sure what I believe about homosexual Christians, and it's not going to win me any popularity contests with the Religious Right.
The one thing I do know is this: I am called to love.
If you have answers to each of the above items, and are able to defend your faith to the fullest, I must admit I'm jealous of you. I have studied the Bible, read books and articles, and listened to podcasts and sermons, desiring to truly know what I believe. The more I studied, the more I realized God is pretty mysterious. I also realized I am not in a place where I feel comfortable speaking on God's behalf.
Through the years, I have grown very skeptical of those who are willing to say, "Thus saith the Lord," because after two years of ministry school, a decade of service, and a lifetime of following Jesus, I still have days when I don't know what on earth God is saying.
I love the wisdom a mentor can bring, if that's what I have signed up for. I also love to sit under great teachers of the faith, if that's what I am choosing. But what I do not appreciate are friends who make it their mission to save me simply because our theology doesn't line up on all points. I don't like the feeling of another Christian deciding I still need to be saved.
Disagreement can teach us a great deal, when it's done in a respectful way. I am trying, daily, to cultivate a life that invites relationships with people different from me. What I want now is for others to extend that same grace to me.
Grace to be wrong. Grace to be uncertain. Grace to say, I don't know. Do we really have to agree on every point to acknowledge the salvation of the other? Do I really need to be saved just because I have gay friends?
Losing friends over theology that none of us fully understand is disappointing and frustrating, but denying my belief in a grace that is greater than I could every fathom is not something I am willing to do. There's grace for dreamers like me. And there's grace for the friends who have walked away, in favor of a religion that fits in their box. There's even grace for those whose don't recognize their need for it. I'm so glad grace doesn't cut off any of us, no matter our theology.

Wednesday, February 24, 2016

It Is By Jesus Christ That We Are Saved


It Is By Jesus Christ That We Are Saved

Today’s Prayer

Thanks be to thee, my Lord Jesus Christ,
For all the benefits thou hast won for me,
For all the pains and insults you have borne for me.
O most merciful Redeemer, Friend, and Brother,
May I know thee more clearly,
Love thee more dearly,
And follow thee more nearly:
For ever and ever.
Richard of Chichester

Today’s Scripture Reading: 1 Peter 3:18-22

For Christ also suffered once for sins, the righteous for the unrighteous, to bring you to God. He was put to death in the body but made alive in the Spirit. After being made alive, he went and made proclamation to the imprisoned spirits— to those who were disobedient long ago when God waited patiently in the days of Noah while the ark was being built. In it only a few people, eight in all, were saved through water, and this water symbolizes baptism that now saves you also—not the removal of dirt from the body but the pledge of a clear conscience toward God. It saves you by the resurrection of Jesus Christ, who has gone into heaven and is at God’s right hand—with angels, authorities and powers in submission to him.

Today’s Quote

Christ with me, Christ before me,
Christ behind me, Christ within me,
Christ beneath me, Christ above me,
Christ at my right, Christ at my left,
Christ in the fort,
Christ in the chariot seat,
Christ on the deck,
Christ in the heart of everyone who thinks of me,
Christ in the mouth of everyone who speaks to me,
Christ in every eye that sees me,
Christ in every ear that hears me.
from the prayer of St. Patrick

Something to Think About

When people hear your words or witness your actions, do they see a reflection of Jesus Christ? If somebody were to eavesdrop on your everyday interactions at work, school, and home, would they want to know more about the Savior you serve?

The Lord Will Provide




The Lord Will Provide

Today’s Prayer

Lord, do not rebuke me in your anger or discipline me in your wrath. Your arrows have pierced me, and your hand has come down on me. My guilt has overwhelmed me like a burden too heavy to bear. Do not forsake me; do not be far from me, my God. Come quickly to help me, my Lord and my Savior. — Psalm 38:1,2,4,21,22

Today’s Scripture Reading: Genesis 22:1-14

Some time later God tested Abraham. He said to him, “Abraham!”
“Here I am,” he replied.
Then God said, “Take your son, your only son, whom you love—Isaac—and go to the region of Moriah. Sacrifice him there as a burnt offering on a mountain I will show you.”
Early the next morning Abraham got up and loaded his donkey. He took with him two of his servants and his son Isaac. When he had cut enough wood for the burnt offering, he set out for the place God had told him about. On the third day Abraham looked up and saw the place in the distance. He said to his servants, “Stay here with the donkey while I and the boy go over there. We will worship and then we will come back to you.”
Abraham took the wood for the burnt offering and placed it on his son Isaac, and he himself carried the fire and the knife. As the two of them went on together, Isaac spoke up and said to his father Abraham, “Father?”
“Yes, my son?” Abraham replied.
“The fire and wood are here,” Isaac said, “but where is the lamb for the burnt offering?”
Abraham answered, “God himself will provide the lamb for the burnt offering, my son.” And the two of them went on together.
When they reached the place God had told him about, Abraham built an altar there and arranged the wood on it. He bound his son Isaac and laid him on the altar, on top of the wood. Then he reached out his hand and took the knife to slay his son. But the angel of the Lord called out to him from heaven, “Abraham! Abraham!”
“Here I am,” he replied.
“Do not lay a hand on the boy,” he said. “Do not do anything to him. Now I know that you fear God, because you have not withheld from me your son, your only son.”
Abraham looked up and there in a thicket he saw a ram caught by its horns. He went over and took the ram and sacrificed it as a burnt offering instead of his son. So Abraham called that place The Lord Will Provide. And to this day it is said, “On the mountain of the Lord it will be provided.”

 

Today’s Quote

"[Jesus] died not as a martyr but as the representative of a sinful race. Although God loved him infinitely, still, as the representatives of a sinful race, in his displeasure he poured down upon him the vials of his indignation. The death of Christ was intended to make an impression upon the universe, and all the circumstances attending it show what a wonderful effect it had. When he was nailed to the cross the sun refused to look on, and the heavens were clothed with sackcloth; the whole universe seemed shaking to its foundations. Heathen philosophers observed it, and said, Either nature is being dissolved, or the god of nature is dying . The dead could not sleep in their graves, the earth trembled, and the tombs opened, and those who had been dead issued forth, and walked into the city. The veil of the temple was rent in twain. God made a mighty impression upon the entire universe, when, in order that sinners might be pardoned, he thus made a fearful demonstration of his hatred against sin." — Charles Finney, 19th century revival preacher, in his sermon "Christ the Mediator"

Something to Think About

Was it "fair" or "just" for Jesus to die for our sins? How does Jesus' death and resurrection change your relationship to God's law?

It Is God Who Justifies




It Is God Who Justifies

Today’s Prayer

O God, whose glory it is always to have mercy: Be gracious to all who have gone astray from your ways, and bring them again with penitent hearts and steadfast faith to embrace and hold fast the unchangeable truth of your Word, Jesus Christ your Son; who with you and the Holy Spirit lives and reigns, one God, for ever and ever. Amen. - from the Book of Common Prayer

Today’s Scripture Reading: Romans 8:31-39

What, then, shall we say in response to these things? If God is for us, who can be against us? He who did not spare his own Son, but gave him up for us all—how will he not also, along with him, graciously give us all things? Who will bring any charge against those whom God has chosen? It is God who justifies. Who then is the one who condemns? No one. Christ Jesus who died—more than that, who was raised to life—is at the right hand of God and is also interceding for us. Who shall separate us from the love of Christ? Shall trouble or hardship or persecution or famine or nakedness or danger or sword? As it is written:
“For your sake we face death all day long;
we are considered as sheep to be slaughtered.”
No, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him who loved us. For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord.

Today’s Quote

"When we go before God in prayer with a cold, dull heart, and in a lifeless and listless manner pray to him for eternal blessings . . . we should think of Christ's earnest prayers that he poured out to God, with tears and a bloody sweat. The consideration of it may well make us ashamed of our dull, lifeless prayers to God, [in which] we rather ask a denial than ask to be heard; for the language of such a manner of praying to God is that we do not look upon the benefit that we pray for as of any great importance, that we are indifferent whether God answers us or not. The example of Jacob in wrestling with God for the blessing should teach us earnestness in our prayers, but more especially the example of Jesus Christ, who wrestled with God in a bloody sweat. If we were sensible as Christ was of the great importance of those benefits that are of eternal consequence, our prayers to God for such benefits would be after another manner than now they are. Our souls also would with earnest labor and strife be engaged in this duty." - Jonathan Edwards, 18th century preacher and missionary

Something to Think About

Did you choose to give something up for Lent? Have you kept to that commitment? Whether or not you have, what has the experience taught you?

Thursday, February 18, 2016

I'm Religious, But Not Spiritual

4 Reasons Why I'm Religious, But Not Spiritual

02/16/2016 05:06 pm ET | Updated 1 day ago
Craig Luekens Pastor, father, husband, 'has-been' athlete, aspiring hipster 
 
There are many great things about the "I'm spiritual but not religious" movement: the desire to escape oppressive hierarchies and abusive organizations, the thirst for authentic and real relationships, the confidence to ask questions many people are afraid or unwilling to ask. Yet there is no doubt that the baby has been thrown out with the bathwater. Being "spiritual but not religious," as I hear it, is code for wanting to follow the "god" of one's own image. Here are four reasons I hope to fight that "once-hip-but-now-it's-too-popular-to-be-truly-hip" trend.
1. Anyone can wax poetic about loving "humanity," but what about your crotchety neighbor?
Chesterton said it best when he remarked, "We make our friends; we make our enemies; but God makes our next-door neighbor." It is all too easy for us to isolate ourselves among people who are just like us, and meanwhile, people who are "different" become harder to understand. Trying watching FoxNews if you're a lover of MSNBC, and vice versa. Now try watching them in order to understand the deeper heart issue for which its viewers are crying out for. You don't have to agree (or even think they're sane), but don't proclaim you're a loving person who loves "humanity" but can't imagine loving half the population of your own country. Being merely "spiritual" often means you're not going to be in community with people you don't like or understand.
2. Duty enhances relationships, it doesn't hinder them
Marriage is the easy example here -- a marriage certificate is not for the less passionate, but the more! It declares, "Even when I change, even when my feelings and moods change, I love you so much I'm willing to cut off options now and live for you in the future." Without a promise like this, we are trapped in consumer relationships that are left to the whim of our appetites. If I join a church, I am vowing to worship God and love my fellow brothers and sisters in Christ even when it's not convenient or fun. Consider this quote from Lewis Smedes, "The only way to overcome the unpredictability of your future is the power of promising. If forgiving is the only remedy for your painful past, promising is the only remedy for your uncertain future... When I make a promise, I testify that I was not routed along some unalterable itinerary by the psychic conditioning visited on me by my slightly wacky parents. I am not fated. I am not determined. When I make a promise to anyone I rise above all the conditioning that limits me."
3. Choice is not my God (at least I try to limit my worship of it)
My wife just came home from the delivery of a good friend's baby, and she remarked, "It's like a runaway train, once it starts, you're not stopping it!" In pregnancy and labor it is abundantly clear that so much of it is not our own doing; it is forced upon us. In our modern world, we are left with very few things that we do not have a choice over, but very often they are the best things in life. Even when they are not the best things, they are the things that produce depth and character in ways that having a choice to get out of simply cannot. Consumer choice seldom leads to consumer happiness. I praise God for the relationships in my church I have with folks who are demographically, racially, socioeconomically, generationally, and personality-wise different from me. I don't always understand them, but I can grow in the grace of God more than I could otherwise imagine! The tragedy of the American church is that it all too often aligns itself along the same boundaries as the rest of the country, based in the same partisan choices that the God we claim to worship transcends.
4. Authority can be for our good
I realize this is probably the strangest and hardest to appreciate, since "authority" is almost universally a negative term in our culture. But can you imagine someone with influence over your life that has your good in mind, has a better grasp of your life, is not limited by subjective biases, or to whom you could submit even if you disagree or doubt? I'm not just talking about God. This happens all the time -- take physics, for example, where the best physicists are always building upon the shoulders of giants, whose truths they accept on authority. Church authority, when done based in the grace of the gospel, is meant to steward us away from the sins that so easily entrap us in order that we would see the mercy of Christ. All too often, our problem is that we don't see just how gracious God truly is, and properly regulated authority is meant to guide us toward that.
The "I'm spiritual but not religious" mantra has a great tendency toward selfishness and superficial morality. When we submit to something outside of ourselves, we are actually able to encounter the good, bad, and ugly in another person; we're actually able to encounter another person -- even if it hurts, and even if they support Trump.